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中央宣布再推迟开学!各位家长,请收好这份“责任清单”,做好孩子的“第一责任人”!

一切为了孩子 百晓人生 2022-04-10

这是一个特殊的寒假,28日中央明确:大中小学、幼儿园等开学开园时间原则上继续推迟。

在这个”超长寒假“里,自律的孩子会越来越优秀,原本成绩一般的孩子很可能因为这个假期,明显退步。

短短一个月,足以拉开巨大差距。

一场特殊的战役,让孩子真正把家庭当做了课堂,把父母当做了老师。
家庭环境的好与坏,决定了孩子的学习质量。
父母的言传身教,无时无刻不在影响着孩子。
在与孩子日日夜夜相处的时间中,各位家长,请潜移默化身体力行地教化孩子,请以身作则培养孩子的良好习惯,请好好陪伴孩子读书、学习与成长。
父母是孩子的镜子,孩子是父母的影子,你就是孩子的“第一责任人”。
从现在开始,必须为孩子的生命成长全面负责。
责任1:保护孩子
钟南山院士说过,家庭内部最容易互相传染。保护好孩子,是每个家长不容推卸的责任。
可以说,你现在所做任何一个决定,哪怕只是一个不出门的决定,都会影响到孩子的生命安全。
父母是孩子唯一的依靠,你所承担的责任,是孩子未来的人生与希望。
如今即将进入拐点,到了这种关键时期,我们更不能掉以轻心。
不要让坚持了一个多月的艰辛努力,输给了一时的疏忽大意。
作为家长,不仅要保护好孩子,更要给孩子做好榜样,
紧跟国家的安排,听从专家的建议。
戴口罩,勤洗手,多通风,少出门,少聚集,不聚餐,不信谣,不传谣。
只有你先重视起来,做好榜样,孩子才能大胆自信地过好这一关。
责任2:重视学业
进入3月,所有家长都必须认识到一点:
寒假已经完全结束,只是这一次,我们在家开学。
为了孩子的健康与安全,教育部门哪怕明知困难重重,也一再推迟开学日期,还发动了其他有关部门为孩子准备空中课堂,开展网上教学,邮寄教材课本。
一句话,教育部难,学校难,老师难,学生难,家长也难。
但这一个难关,这一场硬战,我们必须咬牙撑过去,打下去,因为一切为了孩子,为了孩子的一切。
希望家长不要不满,也不要抱怨,你们的难处我们都感同身受,并且努力想办法解决所有困难。
为了孩子,请与学校、老师站在同一阵线上,打好这场攻坚战。
如果说在此之前,孩子的学业更多要看老师教得好不好;
那么这一次,孩子之间的竞争,就几乎完全成了家庭教育质量之间的竞争。
你就是孩子最好的老师,再高端的名校,再优秀的老师,也比不上你对自己孩子的用心。

责任3:培养习惯
孔子说过:“少成若天性,习惯如自然。”
意思是说,小时候养成的好习惯,会像天生的一样牢固,植根在骨子里。
不管好习惯,还是坏习惯,基本都在小学低年级时已经定型。除非给予特别的教育,否则已经养成的习惯很难改变。
习惯的力量是巨大的,而大多数习惯,都是在家庭中养成的。
当孩子长期在家学习的时候,家长就要承担起这份责任,从小关注孩子良好习惯的养成。

认真的习惯:

上网课要认真,做好笔记,做作业要专注,不能三心二意。
家长要为孩子提供安静且适宜学习的环境,不纵容,不打扰。
主动的习惯:
主动学习,完成作业,不需要家长额外的监督,积极动脑思考,学会解决问题。
家长要不断鼓励,正确引导,给予孩子动力与信心。
独立的习惯:
一个人学习,一个人生活,自己的事情自己做,不依赖任何人。
家长要适当放手,给予孩子成长的机会。
在培养习惯的过程中,我们要鼓励孩子大胆参与,积极参与,锻炼孩子的自信心。
责任4:做好榜样
一直以来,家庭教育的重要性都被低估了。
最理想的教育应该是:每一个家庭都是一所学校,每一个父母都是一个教师。
你是怎么样的,孩子就是怎么样,未来就会变成怎么样。
你为一线医护人员留下了眼泪,孩子幼小的心灵也会受到震动;你响应国家号召少出门、戴口罩,孩子也会向你看齐。
特殊时期,家庭教育不隔离。这一场考验就是一次特殊的考试,你交出怎样的答卷,决定孩子今后的人生。
父母是孩子最好的老师,父母的所作、所为、所言都在潜移默化地影响着孩子。
是早上和孩子一起起来,开始陪她早读、学习、工作?
还是自己睡懒觉,玩手机,打麻将,时刻都在打扰着孩子?
托尔斯泰说过:“全部教育,或者说千分之九百九十九的教育都归结到榜样上,归结到父母自己的端正和完善上。”
如果父母没做好榜样,教育的力度和有效性都会大打折扣,别输了教育,还输了孩子。

 这些日子天热,纵然是杜睿再宠杜云莲,这般时节也不禁对杜云莲的管束严了几分,那些爬高摸底的事情,也都不让她做了,杜云莲自己也觉得炎热难当,这几日除了来杜睿的书房听他授课,便是闷在自己的闺房中,心里早就开始长草了。   一进书房,都没想起来要向李承乾行礼,便扑到了杜睿的身边,抱着杜睿的胳膊,大吵起来。   李承乾也不介意,反而十分喜欢杜云莲的童趣,他看重杜睿,自然对杜睿府上的人,也青眼有加,杜云莲又是杜睿的嫡亲妹妹,李承乾来的时候,也经常拿些宫中有趣的东西来哄杜云莲开心。   “小莲儿!不好好在房中待着,跑到这边做什么?”杜睿说着,还宠溺的帮杜云莲擦去额头上的汗水。   杜云莲委屈道:“三哥!在房里太无趣了,我让你陪我去玩!”    杜睿有心答应,但是一想到外面那能把人都烤出油来的天气,赶紧换了心思,道:“这大热天的,人出去站着都要流汗,还能玩什么?听三哥的话,去找你姐姐们,也学着做些女红!”    杜云莲一听这个,小脑袋摇得好似拨浪鼓一般,道:“不去!不去!要是去学女红,我还不如回房睡觉!三哥!要不然你给我讲故事吧!”这首歌”。红断断续续地说。我忽然明白了什么,对他悄悄地说:“这和钟楼正中午时放的音乐一样”!红惊喜的盯着我,并召集了所有成员(黑、蓝、黄),并叫我绿,我们一起在钟楼那里观察,虽然我们日复一日地观察,可完全看不出有什么线索,就在大家快放弃时一番努力,终于把船停下了。我们找到了个平台,那儿有一个大门,中间有一个小圆,里面有一棵大柳树的印子,我们找了好久都没找到打开门的方法,这时,一直没说话的蓝发话了,说:“我们也许可以用那个盒子试一下”。不试不知道,一试就知道,门一下子就打开了,里面全是黄金珠宝,但是,坏人们突然进来了,修炼就是夺天夺地夺他人之造化,虽然谈不上人吃人,但是生死却是必须看透。   所以死而复生对于他来说绝对是幸事,更何况重生到了洪荒,更是无上的大机缘。   虽然这里天仙遍地走,金仙不如狗,但是只要活着就有希望,反正他也是死过一次的人了。   接着龙珏很快就进入一种玄奥的状态,同时不周山的灵气也是疯狂的凝聚起来。   “不周龙脉!”不知道过了多长时间,龙珏终于清醒了过来,心中激动不已。。   刚刚他获得这一句身体的传承,他竟然是不周山的龙脉之一。不周山的龙脉是什么?乃是整个洪荒的灵气之祖,也是整个洪荒的气运所聚。   他虽然是不周山内山上一个不起眼的龙脉,但这是不周山,放在外面也是一个巨型龙脉。要是在后世,这就是一个祖龙脉,可以帮助一个门派立下万世根基。   而且他是一个有灵智的龙脉,更是可以自己修炼,凝聚天地间的灵气,自动进化。   整个不周山一共有十大祖龙脉,每一个龙脉都是巨大无比,比起传说中的昆仑山或者海外三仙岛都是不差丝毫。   但是这里可是不周山,擎天之柱,虽然很多大能在这里修炼,却是没有一个人敢挪移或者私自占有这些龙脉,因为只要谁挪移了这龙脉,那么恐怖的业力,即使圣人也要立刻暴毙。   而龙珏却是靠着吞噬这些龙脉而成长,甚至最后一举吞噬这十大祖龙脉也不是不可能。,Subhuti, what do you mean by cloud? If you are reading, I should be a sentient being. Subhuti, don't do is read, why? There is no such thing as a Buddha. If there is a sentient being called Tathagata, the Tathagata has four phases: I, man, sentient being and longevity. Subhuti means: Tathagata, have the heart of sentient beings. Subhuti thinks: Tathagata has the heart to help all living beings. Does he have this heart? Buddha is asking him: Subhuti, what is the meaning of cloud? What do you think? In other words, what do you think of this matter, this problem? Do you mean that the Tathagata has the heart to relieve sentient beings? It is wrong to say the Diamond Sutra. You should not call the Tathagata's work a thought. Don't think that the Tathagata says that the Vajrayana Sutra is to save all living beings. Don't think that the Tathagata is to save all living beings. I should be a sentient being. The Buddha is called Subhuti. Don't have this view. Don't think that the Tathagata says the Vajra Prajna Paramita Sutra is for sentient beings. This is wrong. Subhuti, what do you mean to say: Tathagata has the heart to take care of all living beings. Buddha sent Subhuti's suspicion to him. Buddha said that this sutra of Vajra Prajna Paramita does not have a mind of sentient beings, so don't think about it. Why? The essence of all living beings is Buddha, and all living beings are Buddha. This is the Mahayana doctrine. In particular, the Hua Yan Sutra is devoted to this issue, which is contained in many volumes of scriptures. It is said that all sentient beings are Buddhas. If the Tathagata is to make all sentient beings Buddhas, this is a lie. What do you mean by lying? It is me, human beings, sentient beings and longevity, not only I, what I think, this is what I think and what I think in my heart. Although all sentient beings have Buddha nature, if it is said that if it is not because of Buddha, how can he realize? With what practice can one become a Buddha? It is we who hear the Buddha's words, and only by listening to the Buddha's words can we realize this truth and become Buddhists. This Buddha tells us that Buddha transforms sentient beings into beings without transforming them. Buddha does not transform the mind of sentient beings and no sentient beings are transformed by Buddha. This is the characteristic of Vajrayana Sutra. This is why it is different from other Sutras. The Buddha has repeatedly instructed Subhuti that you must not have this kind of thought. You must not say that the Tathagata is for the sake of sentient beings, whether it is the Tathagata saying, the Tathagata practicing, or the Tathagata coming out of the world. Many other sutras say that the great cause of Buddha's birth is the salvation of all living beings. The Diamond Sutra sends out this thought and tells Subhuti that you should not have this idea. Why not call you this idea because of Buddha's salvation of all living beings and why? Subhuti, don't do is read, what reason? The reason is very simple, there is really no such thing as Buddha, so I ask you not to say that Buddha can do it. Because there is really no sentient being, such as Buddha. If there are sentient beings such as Buddha, Buddha has me, human beings, sentient beings and longevity. If the Buddha wants to have this idea, I will have the idea of sentient beings, I will have the idea of sentient beings, I am Buddha, and sentient beings are sentient beings, then the Buddha has four distinct phases: I, human beings, sentient beings and longevity. In fact, the Buddha does not have me, human beings and sentient beings. Therefore, the Buddha enjoins Subbodhi that you do not have the idea of Buddha's idea of sentient beings, and at the same time you do not have doubts. Therefore, tell him not to do is to read, that is what this means. Don't do this, Buddha has no sentient beings to be able to live, no sentient beings to become Buddha, and no Buddha to live. To eliminate this idea, although all sentient beings have Buddha nature, can they be enlightened by themselves if they do not listen to what has been said? What makes you practice to become a Buddha? This is a rhetorical question, that is, let us understand that Buddha is not persistent, nor does he have my own view, human view, sentient beings view, and longevity view. Buddha transforms all living beings into nothing. Buddha transforms all living beings into beings without seeing each other and without being able to transform. There is no Buddha who can be changed, nor is there any sentient beings that can be changed. Let's understand it this way. The meaning is very deep. Let's get rid of all persistence. Because we sentient beings know and see too deeply, especially we draw the common people and Buddha very clearly, which is wrong. For example: Patriarch Danxia, he broke the attachment of the master of a temple, that is, the master monk. Buddha's heart, the heart of all living beings; Buddha's image, sentient beings' image. Persistence is very serious, he went to visit him. Seeing the temple, he went to the main hall. It was winter and the weather was very cold. Patriarch Danxia took down the wooden Buddha statues and split them, lit a fire and baked them. The abbot monk, still can promise him? I started to argue with him. The abbot said: How do you split the Buddha? How did you burn my Buddha statue? He said: I am looking for sarira. The abbot monk said: What relic is in this wood? He said: Oh, there is no sarira in the wood. I'll burn another one if there is no sarira. How do you understand? He is breaking away from this master's knowledge and vision. He is too clear about the Buddha's vision, my vision and all beings' vision. He breaks away from his knowledge and vision. As soon as he burned, he said, ' I am looking for sarira.' Where is the sarira in this place? Where is the sarira in the wooden statue? Why did he worship him without sarira? What is he doing? I'll burn another one and the host will be enlightened. Do you know the reason for his enlightenment? He disavowed his knowledge. Buddha means there is no difference among all beings. The Buddha is wood, not the real Buddha. If we normally regard Buddha statues as wood, can you practice? We really regard the Buddha as the real Buddha. There are several aspects: to a certain kind of person, it is Zen meditation for that old practitioner. he reached the peak and was too clear about the difference between Buddha and sentient beings. Patriarch Danxia broke his belief. This is not something we can use casually. You also went to the temple to take a Buddha statue and split it, then you can commit crimes and shed blood. He didn't, so there is a lot of scripture, don't misunderstand. You must not do that until then. For example, a Zen master, who has been sitting and participating in Zen for 120 years, how can you compare? You can also go there and sit there. how can you compare yourself with him for more than 20 or 30 years? You can only gain by yourself. There was a man selling tofu. when he went to jinshan temple to deliver tofu, he looked at master sitting like this. he said, ' master, one year he also sits like this when delivering tofu, and two years he sits like this. is it any good to sit like this every day?' It must be good. He asked the guest teacher, I also want to sit down. The guest teacher said, ' No, how can you run and sit down?' He said, ' I will not sit inside. the masters will sit inside the door. I will sit outside the door and sit at the back door. is that possible?' The hostess asked him to grind and say, ' okay, okay, you are not allowed to talk or make any noise here.' He sat at the back, waited for a fight, and then said to the guest teacher, ' alas, I have gained a lot from this sitting.' The insider said: What have you gained? He said: I owe me the tofu account three years ago. I have long forgotten it. I remembered several accounts in this sitting. I should go to ask for the account and collect the money. What do you think of this story? How do you understand? Therefore, we should calm down, calm down the crazy heart and floating heart. Like him who has no wisdom, we can realize wisdom. Wisdom can illuminate itself, so-called open wisdom is open mind, open mind is wisdom, simply say wisdom now. Before wisdom comes to light, can it be life or death? In the past, present and future, you have known and completely laid down your body, mind and body, seeing that it is empty, that is the meaning. Buddha does not have sentient beings, nor does he have this idea. I am capable and sentient beings are what I am capable of. If there is such an idea, if he is not a Buddha, he will not succeed, that is the meaning. Subhuti certainly understood, so the Buddha asked Subhuti: Do you think so? The Tathagata's work is to chant me to save all living beings. What if there is such an idea? It is wrong. Subhuti, don't do is read, there is no sentient beings Buddha degree. I'll tell you the truth, in fact, there is not a sentient being who is Buddha. If the Tathagata wants all beings to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be able to be The Buddha has long been dead, without me, human beings, sentient beings and longevity. That's why he said: ' Buddha spends all day without seeing sentient beings.' Because the Buddha knows Subhuti still has doubts, his heart is still not clean, and he still thinks that all living beings are what the Buddha does. All living beings are enlightened by Buddha. Buddha is enlightened by being enlightened, so Buddha wants to be enlightened. Buddha replied: All living beings do not want me to do it, nor do I want to do it. Why? All sentient beings are full of Buddha nature. All sentient beings are Buddha. This everybody can want deep participation, all living beings are Buddha originally, born Buddha has no two, heart and Buddha have no two, no two is one. All sentient beings are Buddhas and are just lost in enlightenment. This truth should be taken into consideration. It's not that scripture can't be told according to the text, but that the participant is thinking. You have to see the body, and the body is the same. No matter what its appearance is, it is the same. For example: wood. If this wood is carved into a Buddha statue, everyone will offer it there and kowtow for worship. If this wood is made into a chair, all of us will sit on it and put it under our buttocks. One kowtows and worships every day and the other sits under his buttocks. Are these two the same? But they are all made of wood. It turns out that they are all made of wood. From this truth, we all realize that the essence is the same, and all living beings and Buddha are one body. He is lost and fallen, that is, all living beings. Has he realized? Enlightenment is Buddha. The Buddha is clear, clear, sentient beings are Buddhas, future Buddhas, Buddhas are accomplished Buddhas. One has become, one has not yet become, it turned out to be one. So Subhuti, the Tathagata, said, ' If there is me, there is no me.' I am a pseudonym, I am not me, then there must be me, but ordinary people don't think so, think it is me. He thought I said I was me, said I was not me, we can understand from what we said. As we say fire, fire is not fire. When talking about fire, it is not fire, but fire, not burning our mouths, burning our tongues, this pseudonym. But if you don't say fire, how can people understand that you mean fire? Let me understand here that this is a false statement. What about Buddha? Buddha is not Buddha, that's the meaning. So Subhuti, the Tathagata, said, ' If there is me, there is no me.' Tathagata said: I am not me. However, ordinary people are persistent, saying that I am not him or you, saying that I am me, respectively. Buddha said: Ordinary people think there is me. The Buddha was afraid of Subhuti clinging to the common people. The Tathagata said, ' The common people are not common people, but common people.' Every diamond sutra has a 30% discount, a pseudonym that follows the world, and an explicit truth. No, after that, they follow the world, so all Buddhas become Buddhas, and they also show that they are just like people. Just understand this truth. The Tathagata said that I am pure in nature, and that I am always happy and pure. I am always happy and clean, not ordinary people who are greedy, angry, stupid, ignorant and false, but I am false. Buddha said that I am always happy and I am clean and virtuous. Therefore, the ordinary people think it is me, and the ordinary people have me, some people, and some people's opinions. That is the ordinary people. Why? Is there birth and death in the heart of the common man, so it is called the common man. The heart of a saint has no birth and death. He is not the common man. The man who has realized Prajnaparamita is not the common man. The man who has lost the Prajnaparamita is the common man. Therefore, ordinary people are not ordinary people, and when ordinary people realize prajnaparamita, they are not ordinary people. Another kind of said, the heart can have some, can have some ordinary, the heart is incompetent, is not ordinary, is the equality law, the law is equal. It is the equality of the law and there is no superiority or inferiority, that is to say, the suspicion is completely removed, the transcendence is immediately entered, and Bodhi is established. That is the Buddha, and all beings are equal. Subhuti, what do you mean by cloud? Can you view the Tathagata in 32 phases? Subhuti, do you think Buddhism is thirty-two and eighty good? Subhuti said: So it is. Yes, it is like this. I view the Tathagata in 32 phases. The Buddha said Subhuti: If you look at the Tathagata in 32 phases, the wheel of the holy king is the Tathagata. If you think of yourself as a Tathagata with 32 phases, you are wrong. Why? There are also 32 phases in the runner king. isn't that why the runner king has become a Buddha? Hearing this, Subhuti made a wrong answer, so he quickly corrected it. Subhuti White Buddha said: Buddha, as I understand the meaning of Buddha, should not view the Tathagata in 32 phases. How should we view the Tathagata? Therefore, the dharma body is not a phase. Tathagata: such as person, such as motionless; Newcomers, come and not come. Should appear in the world, should appear. Dharma is dharma body, because Subhuti's perseverance has not been completely eliminated and there is still this problem. Therefore, the Buddha has raised such a question mark for him. It is supposed to be asked, but Subhuti does not know the meaning of Buddha, so he answered it easily and did not intend to answer it. If so, he is right. Buddha said he was wrong. What should he do? After the Buddha said this, he knew and understood that he did not view the Tathagata in 32 phases, because the runner king has 32 phases and is the same as the Buddha. The runner king is far from the Tathagata. How can he compare with the Tathagata? He saw that his thoughts and worries were not broken, so Subhuti immediately turned around and said that if I understood the meaning of Buddha and said that Buddha asked me, I answered casually. If you ask me further, I know what you mean. You should not look at the Tathagata with the thirty-two phases. You should not look at the Buddha with the thirty-two phases. Now Subhuti is completely clear. At this Prajna meeting, Subhuti has entered the realm of Great Bodhisattva. He is not the original two-way person, but only the person and me. He has already entered the court of justice, so he should not reply了,你们就说我出去有事,很快就回来了。然后皇帝就和我出去把士兵们带回来,皇帝回来后小丑还没来,我就趁机躲在桌子下,又过来一会儿,小丑终于来了,这次小丑又给皇帝送来了一台乐高电脑,并教皇帝在上面玩游戏,皇帝玩的都停不下来了,小丑偷偷拿出了一把剑,用力向皇帝刺去,我使用木元素胜了,还要五个乐高人也被留了下来接受训练跟着定位装置,我们到了一座火山脚下,我们坐着车一路开进了云里,可又不像云,因为云没有这么大一片的,听了当地居民的谈话,才知道这叫云海,在云海里的视线越来越模糊,能见度越来越低了,只能看见距离两米内的东西,突然,前面出现一块大石头功的,不过,他们的武功只能打架杀人,却不能救人。”    不是吧,什么时候武功如此泛滥了!   杨枫震惊,他原先以为,这世界就算存在这武功之类的,也多想是小说里写的,把门派立在深山老林中,轻易不再外面行走。   不过杨枫也不想想,现在是现代社会,天南大学这样的名牌大学,能够进入其中的,头脑是绝对没有问题的,而练武之人,在头脑方面也可能比一般人要好,因此天南大学这样精英荟萃的地方,自然不缺乏练武之人。   “杨枫,你说你治疗一次,就能保证我十天的健康?那日后呢,你能不能继续帮我治疗啊,你放心,我会补偿你的。”,他一副高兴的样子说:“这不是元素战士吗?想不二、白三、白四、白五一起来想办法,城墙也不高,难怪历史上刘备打荆南时,包括长沙太守韩玄在内的几个不愿投降的都是出城接战,这么矮,又不结实的城墙,能守得住才是怪了。   张锋一路经过大大小小的城池时,均是按人头收的城门税,到了这里,守门的小校踮着脚看了看他们车队,只收了两金,就挥手让他们进城了。 轻轻吐出一口浊气,林逸脸上的笑容很明显,终于把三千雷动初步练成了,还真是艰难啊!   单单是等打雷刮风,就等了整整五天,炼化风雷之力的时候,还差点被烤熟了!好不容易成功驯服雷电之力,结果把衣服给烧了个干净,差点被小师妹给“斩了大蛇”。   这其中的坎坷,还真是够让人不寒而栗的。   不过一切都是值得的,单单是这三千雷动第一阶段“雷闪”的速度,就对得起林逸这一顿雷劈了!   “师兄,你刚刚练的,就是三千雷动吗?”邀月望着林逸,眼中的激动之色难以掩饰。   她很清楚,《明玉经》上记载着的配套轻功,在速度上远远比不上林逸之前的身法,至少在一流境界来看是这样的。   身具风雷之力,在速度方面,林逸占了太大的便宜。   林逸点了点头:“是的,正是三千雷动,等你们成功把体内的风雷之力与明玉真气融合,到时候应该也可以练成三千雷动。”    “到时候,同境界里应该没有人能够比你们更快,即使是超过你们一个大境界的武者,也未必能追的上你们。”大叫,结果被黄忠一栗子敲得不做声了。路两边灰色的低舍倒是整整齐齐,门口坐满了乘凉的人,却是直接一屁股坐在雨水冲洗过的地上,根本不怕将来会患上风湿或关节炎。完蓝就给我拿了碗饭,我飞快的吃了下去,我完全恢复后就问二队怎么样了。                          

责任5:陪伴阅读
培根说过:“读史使人明智,读诗使人灵秀,数学使人周密,科学使人深刻,伦理学使人庄重,逻辑修辞使人善辩,凡有所学,皆成性格。”
阅读能让人看到不一样的视野,学到需要的知识,增长见识和涵养,构建更广阔的精神世界,获得更深层次的快乐。
所有的阅读,最终都会变成一种教育,融入到孩子的骨血里。
不管孩子平时的生活有多有趣,如果不去读一些美好的、有趣的和珍贵的书,他们的童年必定有所缺失,是任何其他教育都无法弥补的。
要让孩子爱读书,父母先做读书人。
如果连你都不能在书桌前静坐半小时,又如何要求孩子每天从早到晚坚持长达五六个小时的学习呢?
孩子一个人阅读的质量和效果,远远比不上有父母的陪伴阅读。
每个家庭都是最好的课堂,父母在家多读书,营造好学上进的氛围,孩子自然会向父母看齐。

责任6:发现问题
很多人都说,我们不该责怪孩子,孩子并没有错。
可如果对孩子的错误视而不见,任由他偷懒懈怠,会不会有一天他不做作业了,不高兴了,反过来怪我们,我们还要向他赔礼道歉。
教育是需要一点点狠心的,没有底线的宽容,就是对孩子最不负责的纵容。
当你发现孩子听课经常走神时,就要提高孩子的专注度;
当你发现孩子写作业越来越慢时,就要提高孩子的效率。
这段时间,请所有家长不要敷衍,这是发现孩子问题的最好时机。
该抓的作业就好好抓,该督促孩子学习时就不要心软,该改正的小毛病就好好改正,该培养的好习惯就好好培养。
很多时候我们所以为的问题,包括“网瘾”、“叛逆”等等都不是“病”,而是对孩子的教育方式、沟通方式出了问题。
一定要多了解儿童的行为与心理,多学习教育儿童的正确方式和手段,做一个真正负责任的好父母。
教育的根本目的,是让孩子成为更优秀的人。你现在狠心逼孩子一把,将来总有一天,他一定会感谢你。
责任7:树立理想
教育是世界上最伟大的事业,既要仰望星空,在孩子的心中播种希望,又要脚踏实地,让孩子踏实地学习、成长。
我们看到医生、护士奔赴前线,我们看到乘务员、快递员坚守岗位,我们看到年青一代的“新人”挺身而出,也看到上了年纪的“老人”不离不弃……
灾难见人心,在这一场特殊的战役里,我们看到了普通人的大爱,更读懂了他们心中的理想和信仰。
给孩子最好的教育就是,用行动向孩子诠释什么是道德、良知、信仰,帮助孩子树立正确的人生观、价值观、世界观。
作为家长,你就是孩子的“活教材”,孩子明天的模样,必定会刻上你今天的烙印。
树立理想就像种一棵树,在孩子还小的时候就要准备好土壤,播种下种子,指引孩子寻找理想,开拓人生道路。
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人生没有标准答案,未来也没有统一模式。父母要有远见,为孩子的一生着想,利用好这个特殊的“新学期”,为孩子更远的人生之路扬帆起航。

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